door Vulpius

Verdraaid. Ik was nog beginnen twijfelen, maar net de test nog eens gedaan en ja hoor:

  • To outsiders, INTJs may appear to project an aura of “definiteness”, of self-confidence.
  • INTJs are perfectionists, with a seemingly endless capacity for improving upon anything that takes their interest.
  • INTJs have also been known to take it upon themselves to implement critical decisions without consulting their supervisors or co-workers.
  • Personal relationships, particularly romantic ones, can be the INTJ’s Achilles heel. While they are capable of caring deeply for others (usually a select few), and are willing to spend a great deal of time and effort on a relationship, the knowledge and self-confidence that make them so successful in other areas can suddenly abandon or mislead them in interpersonal situations.
  • This happens in part because many INTJs do not readily grasp the social rituals.
  • To complicate matters, INTJs are usually extremely private people, and can often be naturally impassive as well, which makes them easy to misread and misunderstand. Perhaps the most fundamental problem, however, is that INTJs really want people to make sense. This sometimes results in a peculiar naivete’, paralleling that of many Fs — only instead of expecting inexhaustible affection and empathy from a romantic relationship, the INTJ will expect inexhaustible reasonability and directness.
  • Probably the strongest INTJ assets in the interpersonal area are their intuitive abilities and their willingness to “work at” a relationship. Those relationships which ultimately do become established with an INTJ tend to be characterized by their robustness, stability, and good communications.

“Inexhaustible reasonability and directness.” …hmja.